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How to Co-Parent Harmoniously After Divorce

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child custody paysonPlenty of marriages stay intact because of the children, but sometimes this can create a hostile family environment. When divorce is the only option between two people, the next matter to discuss is co-parenting.

Here are four ways to start co-parenting with your ex in the most amicable way possible from expert attorneys at Mt. Nebo Law :

Work with  professional. The truth is, whether or not you had an amicable divorce, you and your ex will realize that custody agreements are a completely different realm. It can get ugly, fast– and it will be your child who suffers. It helps to keep communications with your attorney during this time. If you sought legal advice for divorce, you should seek the same when working out your co-parenting decisions.

Make concrete decisions. Your kids spending equal time in two different households is not only impractical, it can be detrimental to their progress and healing. As parents, you will have to make difficult decisions such as compromise on visits or even relocating to a place where you can give your children a stable school and home environment. Iron out the specifics of your plan and make sure you both stick to it. 

Have a backup plan. Your co-parenting plan could be well thought-out, but raising children is not that simple. One co-parent could meet a new partner, a child might do better in a different school district, there might be financial matters that will change your custody agreement. It helps to formulate multiple contingency plans together with the help of an attorney to adapt quickly to changes while putting as little strain on your children as possible.

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Communicate. This can be hard for co-parents, especially if the divorce was not amicable. Communicating with your ex is unavoidable, especially if you are raising children together. Consider counseling or family therapy to help open the lines of communication and improve relations between you and your co-parent.

Sometimes, divorced couples realize they're far better for each other and their children as co-parents. While the circumstances of your partnership may have changed, one fact has not– the partnership.

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